would you ever give someone a gift before thoroughly examining its contents?
before giving something to someone you have to make sure nothing is broken, or even flawed. when you present someone with a gift you make sure its perfect, this is a reflection of how much you care about this person. more so, this is a reflection of you. this means that it must be given at the perfect time in the most flawless way possible.
if this is the case for gifts; then why are we so quick to give away our hearts?
"i love you" expressed to all those we swear we just can't live without. this is the most sacred entity that we have and we give it away as if it can be easily replaced. before we understand all of its contents we are more than willing to give it away to someone who has potential not even appreciate it.
why are we willing to do whatever it takes to prove to someone that they would be happier with us? reassuring that all needs will be made because of our love. why does love cost so much money? why do we not realize our own worth? *wait! i can answer that one.
--> because we are not willing to take the time and get to know ourselves before we give ourselves to someone who is emotionally (and probably physically) appealing. there's been so many times i've heard someone say "i'll never find anyone else like them, so i have to hold on". if this person isn't giving you their all and reciprocating the same "love" you present to them, then why exactly would you want to find someone else like them again..?
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